You need your fear-based Self… let me clarify.
You need your fear-based Self in a world of contrast and polarities.
It is your fear-based Self that recognizes and notifies you of "what you are not"
– the “contrast” you need in order to know Who You Are.
Do you see?
The proper relation is for your fear-based Self to serve your Love-based Self,
and for your Love-based Self to LOVE, unconditionally, your fear-based Self.
Do not try to deny or banish your fear-based Self! (which you sometimes label as Ego).
But also, do not allow yourself to live from your fear-based self.
Live from Love!